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The Perils of Becoming a Blogging Celebrity

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Image of ConferenceIt might seem like a good problem to have. Most bloggers toil in anonymity or near-anonymity, struggling to get their sites read and find more exposure for their works.

However, those few who do “make it” often don’t fare much better. Those who achieve even a small amount of fame online often find that being known can be just as bad, if not worse, as being an unknown.

Even someone, such as myself, who achieves a tiny amount of fame in a very small niche quickly learns that any notoriety comes with a slew of responsibility and, at times, headaches.

So, before you set on the path of trying to become a famous or semi-famous blogger, you may want to take a moment and look at some of the drawbacks and problems that come with it.

Fortunately though, most of those problems can be easily mitigated, but one has to be ready for them in order to stop them from ruining everything they’ve worked on.

The Perils of Getting Big

On one hand, there is certainly a lot to like about being well-known, even moderately so. People tend to listen to what you have to say, they share your work via social media, treat you as an authority figure and value your opinion. It can be nice and it is definitely a huge boost to the ego.

However, while that attention shines a bright spotlight on all of the good that you do, it shines the light equally bright on everything that you do poorly.

Others, many of whom may want to tear you down so they can build themselves up, will pick apart your words and ideas. Others, possibly wanting to trade on your name and reputation, will criticize you, often pointlessly, and even go as far as to libel you online.

Depending on the size of your fame and how controversial of a figure you might be, the attacks can get downright vindictive and reach a point where nothing is sacred. Friends, family, employers and anything in between can become targets.

That, in turn, is precisely what happened to Pamela Jones of Groklaw in 2005 when a reporter published information about her personal life, including her mother and photos of her house.

Though attacks that go that far are less common, smaller ones are regular for almost all bloggers of any notoriety.

In short, while it can be tough to have no one listening to you, it can be far worse to have them listening to everything you say and, even worse, screaming as loud as they can to drown you out, literally at any cost.

Dealing With “Fame” and Silencing the Trolls

The first step to dealing with fame is realizing that you have it to begin with. Many bloggers might look at their traffic stats and believe that they are not popular at all when, in reality, they’ve got a good foothold in their niche, at least enough of one so that people are paying attention.

Just because you aren’t getting tens of thousands of visitors a day doesn’t mean you aren’t a celebrity. What does count is that the people who need to know who you are known do so and that they are taking interest in your work. After all, they are the same people who can destroy what you’ve built.

With that in mind, it’s time to stop thinking like you’re screaming into the wind and start realizing that people are actually paying attention, even if it only seems like a few.

With that in mind, here are a few good steps to follow:

  1. Thicken Your Skin: First, realize that you need to develop a thicker skin to insults. When you only get a few visitors a day on your site, you can respond to every negative comment and fight every flame war. With even a little bit of traffic that becomes impossible. Learn to not let insults and criticisms bother you and how to move on from them. Sometimes you just have to walk away.
  2. Watch What You Say: Be careful about what you say on your site. Word things very carefully and make sure that there’s no room for misunderstanding. Be especially clear with your titles as they are the most commonly read part of your blog. Also, be wary of what you say on Twitter, Facebook and other social media as they can haunt you as well.
  3. Take the High Road: Remember, no matter how dirty someone gets with their responses to you, take the high road. You might be able to get some cheap traffic with smearing someone else’s name, as with the recent Gizmodo story, but long term success comes from being the better person.
  4. Learn How to Handle Mistakes: When you make a mistake, always handle it carefully. Be honest, be open and do your best to make it right. Any attempt to cover it up, no matter how innocent, may be seen as an attempt to exploit your position unfairly.
  5. Paint Yourself as Human: It’s easy to forget online that we’re talking to and about other human beings. Always work to present yourself as a human being and make sure that others don’t see you as a faceless name. Have your image on your site, share a few personal stories and be honest about your weaknesses. Not only do people relate better with other humans, but they are less likely to attack them too.

The most important thing, however, is to simply keep your eyes on why you started blogging and not let the problems outside of that get you down.

If you have a goal in mind and a purpose for your work, even if it is as simple as making people smile, it’s a lot easier to stay focused and not get caught up in the distractions.

Bottom Line

In the end, if you find yourself in a position of authority, no matter how small that position may seem to be, you need to show respect for it. Even if just one person trusts your opinion or wants to know what you have to say, you owe it to that person to treat their trust in you with respect.

If you do that, then you and have a good understanding that, sometimes, the Web can be a very uncaring and unfriendly place, you should be fine.

The problems usually arise when one thinks no one is listening, ignoring the audience they have, and then wondering why the mob is out to tear them down.

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  1. Michael Nickerson ) says: 9/1/2011

    Everyone (myself included) believes in the grass is greener on the other side mentality, not thinking that the grass may be greener but the maintenance is a nightmare.

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  2. poch says: 9/1/2011

    Bravo. You’ve got wisdom Jonathan.

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  3. Jane | Find All Answers ) says: 9/2/2011

    Dealing with negative comments and anger/frustrations is the most critical thing to deal with in a diplomatic manner.

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  4. Jane | Find All Answers ) says: 9/2/2011

    Dealing with negative comments and anger/frustrations is the most critical thing to deal with in a diplomatic manner.

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  5. Jane | Find All Answers ) says: 9/2/2011

    Dealing with negative comments and anger/frustrations is the most critical thing to deal with in a diplomatic manner.

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  6. Fresno Lawyer says: 9/7/2011

    I once received a comment on one of my blogs that criticized the photos on my site. I thanks the person for their input, I explained that I was going for an ‘urban feel’ and then I asked if I could see their site to get some ideas for better images. They did not have a site and they accepted my back handed compliment by not commenting in a negative manner. 

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  7. Adriana says: 2/25/2012

    thanks for share!

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