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How to Create Chemistry
Whether personal or professional the main ingredient of creating chemistry is “connecting” on a core level. For me, blogs with chemistry have a conversational quality. A feeling that there’s a dialogue going on, not a monologue. You feel like you know the author, or at least that you’d like to. There’s a display of personality without being too “personal.” Wouldn’t you agree?
Once you build a relationship, your “rep” and a rapport, things will change a bit. Readers come to know your work and your worth and are more likely to excuse an “off day” in terms of “perceived brilliance.”
Here are four clever and creative ways to create chemistry with readers and keep them coming back for more.
1. Understand their needs. Most blog readers want quality, concise content that helps them to feel better about their current situation or teaches them concrete ways to improve upon it. Give it to them. Quickly.
2. Don’t fake the feeling. If you’re passionate about what you provide, readers will feel it and be receptive to receiving it. Be sincere and authentic. There are millions of bloggers, but only one you.
3. Have an “informed” firm opinion. Don’t be afraid to take a stand on issues even if you seem to be in the minority. You may not win a popularity contest, but you’ll inspire dialogue and intelligent debate. And you’ll likely be remembered.
4. Write well. In this day and age when people read less than they used to, (due to time constraints), content is still king. To build and maintain readership, it’s still important to “woo” with words.
What’s your take on this topic? Do you think it’s possible to create instant chemistry with audiences? Have you ever read someone’s work and liked that person immediately? Is the 30-second rule fair?